L'esprit de l'escalier
not terrible to me :) you may not be perfect, but you're certainly GREAT to me, in many ways. But then, sometimes being terrible is not necessarily a bad thing, I think.
perhaps I should change the word "perfect" into something else... but never mind, I believe you can get my point xoxo
I have the same feeling sometimes. Thankfully, I know God helps and saves terrible people like all of us!